Most people assume they’re following the right rules for success, productivity, and relationships — what if we’re playing a game we don’t fully understand?

Rigid rules assume there’s a correct path. They work — until reality doesn’t fit. When that happens, we don’t question. We assume we’re failing.

Games, on the other hand, reveal patterns. They aren’t about rigid steps but about learning how to navigate complexity.

The ability to …

LISTEN for reference
REFLECT for understanding
CAPTURE the learning

… is far more valuable than simply being ‘disciplined’ and following rules.

What if the problem isn’t winning but realizing you’re playing the wrong game?