Some of us misunderstood that the phrase, “Bless your heart” really means, “Go F yourself.”
To avoid another misunderstanding, when we say PRECIOUS, we mean SELFISH — being terminally unique, having special snowflake syndrome. Precious is taking ourselves too seriously, focusing on what makes us different instead of acknowledging the sameness.
Sameness is the cake. Uniqueness is the icing on the cake.
Uniqueness is more accurately celebrated on the foundation of sameness.
Are you blessing your heart or celebrating your uniqueness?