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Everything is Backwards

I didn’t feel like it.

Told myself I’d wait.

Until I felt like doing it.

When I had clarity.

When I felt motivated.

When I was aligned.

When it felt right.

When I felt right.

Everything is backwards.

Clarity. Motivation. Alignment.

They’re not requirements.

They’re results.

They happen after.

After I take the action.

After I risk.

After I lead.

Actions lead, they don’t follow.

I never feel like doing anything.

I think of something.

Then, I either feel good about it.

Or I don’t.

When I do, the story is I feel like doing it.

When I don’t, the story is I don’t feel like doing it.

Then, I either do it.

Or I don’t.

Regardless of the story.

Regardless of my feelings.

Feelings don’t drive my actions.

They are a signal of my mental state.

When I act the way I want to feel,

the feelings catch up.

Sure, it can be easier when everything is aligned.

It isn’t a guarantee.

I felt like running without leaving my couch.

It can be harder when they aren’t.

That’s the work.

That’s redeeming work.

To act as I want to become.

A demonstration of faith.

Faithful to the person I want to become,

before I feel like being him.

Even when I don’t feel like being him.