I’ve convinced myself I’m being realistic.
Pulling the plug.
Reading the signs.
Moving on.
I called it stopping.
It’s quitting.
I couldn’t see the loop.
Didn’t notice I’d slipped into escape mode.
Tired.
Frustrated.
Tired and frustrated.
Unclear on what “finished” meant.
Leaving a project midstream
because it didn’t feel worth it anymore.
I never defined “worth it” in the first place.
This loop has a signature:
Avoidance in the form of decisiveness.
Uncertainty masked as clarity.
What helps me determine the difference is asking:
Did I meet the requirement to stop?
Or am I bailing because I never defined “done”?
Stopping closes a loop.
Quitting leaves one open.