I thought I wanted an answer.
Ideally, the right answer.
I wanted to be right.
I wanted to do the right thing.
I wanted to have the right word.
An answer feels safe.
It gives me a destination.
A place to land.
Answers don’t provide directions.
They are a direction.
They fix me in place.
An answer is a place.
They are best used as reference.
Something to compare against.
What I usually need is a question.
Ideally, the right question.
Ideally, at the right time.
A question doesn’t end the process.
It is the process.
It gives me a point of view.
An answer tells me where to go.
A question tells me where to look.
That’s the difference.
That’s redeeming work.
The intentional orientation isn’t about having both.
It’s about knowing which one is indicated.
Sometimes I need a place.
Sometimes I need a direction.
An answer pushes clarity.
A question pulls me forward.
Closer to right.
Further than any answer could place me.