As life becomes more complex,
it becomes increasingly more important for us to be more precise.
More complexity, by definition, means an increase in options.
It is easier to figure out what not to do than what to do.
This reduces the number of options.
In a word, it’s restraint.
When we use a principle as a filter, we create clarity.
Restraint is a self-imposed limitation
that guides impulses, builds discipline, and holds back what doesn’t serve us.
Not because we can’t, but because we choose not to.
Restraint draws a line.
It’s the difference between acting on purpose and reacting on impulse.
They become choices rooted in clarity.
They define what we are not willing to do
in order to stay aligned with what we’re being called to do.
It’s how we distinguish between action and reaction.
Between being an intentional sidekick and a distracted superhero.
In a world of increasing complexity,
restraint is a filter through which we navigate
the classy problem of infinite options.
We practice nine:
- Don’t be dishonest – own the truth as the next version of next. #NVoN
- Don’t take credit for grace – work is the most honorable act in the universe.
- Don’t be transactional – I can’t calculate the infinite.
- Don’t push – pull is the byproduct of a well-designed system.
- Don’t be certain – pursue closer to right. #CtR
- Don’t be arrogant – copy the most effective.
- Don’t blame others – post-survival is 100% optional.
- Don’t overproduce – be intentional.
- Don’t wait on perfection – make mistakes at full speed. #M@FS
Applied individually, they can provide clarity.
Applied and taken sequentially, they can provide indicated action.