There is too much. Too much noise. Too much input. Too much urgency. Too much toomuchness. The temptation is to try harder. To do more. To get ahead …
Orientation is Everything
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Backwards Orientation
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Sometimes everything looks wrong. It looks backwards. Like I am trapped in a reflection. The problem isn’t my effort. It’s my orientation. I’m facing …
Re-orientation Is Always Available
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There’s a myth in survival systems. That change comes once a year. That reflection belongs to calendar turns. That re-orientation requires a dramatic …
Routine …
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Some thoughts don’t need to be solved. They need to be softened. … …
Spoons
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Most of my truths are too big to take in all at once. They require a smaller tool. One made for contact, not change. Spoons uncover. They invite me to …
Closer to Right (CtR)
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I wanted to get it right. Nailed down. Buttoned up. Proof I knew what I was doing. I called it determination. It was control. The loop of needing to …
My Preference is to Judge
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I judge. I don’t want to pretend I don’t. That would be another kind of performance. The goal to be neutral, non-judgmental, peaceful. In the …
Easier to Give Than It Is to Receive
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Advice is easier to give than it is to receive. That’s my first clue that I’m not trying to connect. I’m trying to solve. I want to be useful. I want …
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If You’re Not Growing, You’re Dying
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That’s what they said. I think they wanted to motivate me. It felt like they were trying to inspire me. To keep going. If you’re not growing, you’re …
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Abundance Isn’t the Answer
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Abundance is the problem. I get the sentiment. The abundance crowd means well. They want more choices, more energy, more access. More yes. Less no …
But Wait, There’s More
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That’s the line. Always delivered right before we thought it was over. But wait. There’s more. It sounds like a gift. It’s a trap. I didn’t ask for …
But That’s Not All
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You can’t have it all. As if “all” is a fixed thing. Frames the problem as volume, not clarity. The issue with “all” isn’t that it’s too big. It’s …