By the time I feeloverwhelmed,stressed,pissed.I’ve already started moving things around.My calendar.My priorities.My effort.I look for the fix.Any …
Framed Myself
I thought I was being honest.Turns out, I was being urgent.Urgent is a frame.I thought I was being clear.Turns out, I was maintaining.Maintaining is a …
Awareness Loops
... I thought I was making progress.Felt like momentum.Looked like commitment.I called it growth.It was a loop.I couldn’t see the pattern.That’s a …
Learning Is Something I Haven’t Met Yet
Learning is a relationship with the unknown.Something I haven't met yet.Something unfamiliar.A belief is different.A belief is like an old …
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The Picture and The Frame
I thought I was seeing clearly.Looking at the full picture.I was reacting to the frame.The picture is what is.The frame is how I see it.What’s in …
How To and Why
I wanted clear instructions.Step-by-step.Show me the path.Tell me how to win.I called it preparation.It was avoidance.The loop of looking for HOW TO …
Reference
I’m responding.Making decisions.Reading the moment.Reacting to what’s happening.At least, I think I am.I call it awareness.It’s automation.Default …