By the time I feeloverwhelmed,stressed,pissed.I’ve already started moving things around.My calendar.My priorities.My effort.I look for the fix.Any …
The Problem Isn’t My Problem
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Beyond Comparison
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I am impressed when I see others do it.Motivated by it.Their wins. Their clarity. Their pace.I’m comparing. Grading.Measuring my version against …
If I Am Being Honest
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I tell myself I’m being honest.I believe it.I even feel self-righteous about it.Until later.When something doesn’t add up.When someone reflects …
Framed Myself
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I thought I was being honest.Turns out, I was being urgent.Urgent is a frame.I thought I was being clear.Turns out, I was maintaining.Maintaining is a …
The Proof of Progress
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Happiness is not a destination.It’s a byproduct of progress.Said more accuratelyHappiness is the perception of progress.When I think I’m moving …
Evidence vs Interpretation
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Evidence lives outside of me.It’s what happened.What can be seen.What can be measured.Interpretation lives inside of me.It’s what it means.Why it …
Awareness Loops
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... I thought I was making progress.Felt like momentum.Looked like commitment.I called it growth.It was a loop.I couldn’t see the pattern.That’s a …
How Trust Begins
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... I used to think trust was the resultof being right.Having the answer.Making the case.Winning the argument.It doesn’t.Trust doesn’t begin with …
Learn It Alone, Live It Together
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Societal design requires me to walk as an individual first.Then we can walk together.A skill must be developed individually.By an individual.By …
Learning Is Something I Haven’t Met Yet
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Learning is a relationship with the unknown.Something I haven't met yet.Something unfamiliar.A belief is different.A belief is like an old …
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A Sleight of Hand vs A Sleight of Truth
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An illusion is a sleight of hand.It's something I've misinterpreted.A delusion is a sleight of truth.It's a lie I've told myself.Illusions are shared, …
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It’s Just Business
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... That’s what we saywhen we can't align decision and feeling.We decide on an outcome.That makes it the right outcome.One problem.The feelings …