I used to think trust was the resultof being right. Having the answer. Making the case. Winning the argument. It doesn’t. Trust doesn’t begin with …
How Trust Begins
| | Filed Under: R1 - Don’t be dishonest |
Bots Talking to Bots
| | Filed Under: R2 - Don’t take credit for grace |
I wasn’t talking to you. I was talking to a version of you. You weren’t talking to me. You were talking to the version of me I’ve outsourced. …
Love Paradox
| | Filed Under: R7 - Don’t blame others |
I love you. I want to be with you. Being with you scares me. You haven’t done something wrong. I experience all interactions in the same way. Same …
Message vs Communication
| | Filed Under: R8 - Don’t overproduce |
I sent the message. Clear. Concise. Efficient. I called it communication. It wasn’t. It was a transaction. One-way. Pressed “Send” Assumed it landed. …
Outsource Survival
| | Filed Under: R7 - Don’t blame others |
I thought we’d made progress. Secured safety. Scaled comfort. I called it evolution. It was disconnection. I didn’t realize that outsourcing survival …
No Worries vs. My Pleasure
| | Filed Under: R7 - Don’t blame others |
The phrases “No worries” and “My pleasure” may seem interchangeable, but they carry distinct tones and intentions shaping how we connect and …