It’s easy to treat the gap like a to-do list item.A problem to solve.An inefficiency to address.I thought my job was to close it.Fast. Clean. …
Mine the Gap
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I Know I Don’t Know
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I didn’t stop to ask.I followed it.Like it was written somewhere.Like there’d be consequences if I didn’t.Be thoughtful.Don’t be a burden.Have the …
A Letter to a Friend
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... Please don’t read this.I don’t want you to read my content.I want you to be reading it.Now. Later. Again.Like finding somethingyou didn’t …
We Get What We Pay With
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... We believe we get what we pay for.That's not how our modern systems work.Not really.We don’t get what we pay for.We get what we are left …
Systems That Don’t Know When to Stop
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... Every system is perfectly designedto produce its current results.Some systems were designed to solve a problem.Others were designed to keep …
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Love Paradox
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I love you.I want to be with you.Being with you scares me.You haven’t done something wrong.I experience all interactions in the same way.Same …
Taking It Personally? Don’t.
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I thought they were attacking me.I felt like they were attacking me.Attackingmy idea,my motives,my character.I took it personally.In doing soI made it …
Competition vs. Contribution
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I wanted to win.To prove myself.To stand out.To get what I’d earned.I called it ambition.It was comparison.The loop of competing for worthinstead of …
Radical Change Requires Radical Stability
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All of life is radical change.It always has been.It always will be.The myth of every age is this is most radical time in history.That our challenges …
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Outsource Survival
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I thought we’d madeprogress.Secured safety.Scaled comfort.I called it evolution.It was disconnection.I didn’t realizethat outsourcing survivalmeant …
Whose Goal?
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I’m busy.I’m moving.I’ve got momentum.It feels like progress.It looks like direction.It’s urgency.I didn’t choose it.I caught it.Like a cold.I call it …
Selective Ownership
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I take responsibility.When it’s easy.When it’s visible.When it aligns withhow I want to be seen.It's a performance.I call it ownership.It’s …