Obstacles are not blockers. They're design constraints. They aren’t in the way. They show what needs to be included. Obstacles inform us where and …
Rebuilding Roofs
At one point, I was a roof framer. The job was physically demanding, but simple. We would start on top of the walls and construct our work environment …
How We Think About Stress is Backwards
It's unrealistic to think we can entirely avoid stress. It’s inescapable in the toomuchness of life. Opting for off-grid or simplifying one's life …
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Stress Is a Signal
In all systems stress is not a failure. Stress is a signal. It shows the system, us, where tension is building and where misalignment appears to be …
When Proximity is Intentional
As life becomes more complex, it becomes increasingly important to be precise. It's easy to mistake proximity solely for nearness. Proximity is how …
Tissue Paper Thinking
Tissue paper is designed for one use. More than one use comes at the peril of the user. Thinking works in the opposite way. Thinking is inclusive and …
Model vs. Demonstrate
Modeling is the act of demonstrating someone else's product. A demonstration is the product of our actions. To model is to try it on. To demonstrate …
Some Thoughts on Thinking and Planning
As life becomes more complex, it becomes increasingly important to be precise with our words. It’s easy to confuse thinking with planning when …
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Your Will Not Mine
Your will isn't mine to control. Mine is not yours to justify. What might be indicated is not a compromise of wills but a demonstration of …
Learning Awareness
Awareness is discovery. We mistake discovery for development. Don't confuse awareness with learning. Awareness is the moment we realize we’ve been …
Time Stops When We’re In It
One of the compelling attributes of engagement is that time stops. We lose track of it when we become one with it. Every moment, we can choose to …
Zoom Settings
Long before the era of shelter-in-place, and likely long after the next tectonic shift in technology, the true power of 'zoom' will endure. As …