My most common failure is misdiagnosis. I think I see the problem. When what I am observing is a symptom. A signal. A reaction. An echo. I name it. …
Misdiagnosed
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When I Don’t Match What’s Needed
| | Filed Under: R1 - Don’t be dishonest |
I know what’s required. I know what’s needed. I can even feel it. I still don’t always match it. I’m willing, but I’m human. Sometimes, being humanmeans …
A Clarity Request Is a Willingness Test
| | Filed Under: R8 - Don’t overproduce |
When I am afraid, frustrated. When I am uncertain. I ask for clarity. Not certainty. Clarity. I’ve learned I can’t demand it. It’s not transactional. It’s …
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Is It Just Me?
| | Filed Under: R5 - Don’t be certain |
I’ve been in the room. Fully in it. I’ve been with you. Fully with you. Doing what was indicated. Feeling aligned. Acting from clarity. Not confused. Not …
Obsessing or Assessing
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There are times when I am convinced I am invested. My actions support it. Turning it over in my head. Rethinking. Reworking. Rewording. Again. Again. …
Intersection of Function and Purpose
| | Filed Under: R5 - Don’t be certain |
Function is what something does. Purpose is why it matters. They don’t always align. A tool can function without meaning. A role can be used without …
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Demonstration or Performance?
| | Filed Under: R9 - Don’t wait on perfection |
I tell myself I’m showing up. Doing the right thing. For the right reasons. I call it integrity. It’s image. It looks aligned. It feels clear. I’m …
Nearness Without Proximity
| | Filed Under: R1 - Don’t be dishonest |
I thought we were aligned. Same goals. Same direction. Same page. Then I felt distance. Drift. Disconnection. I told myselfit was timing. Or bandwidth. Or …