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Don’t Blame Others

Don’t blame others – post-survival is 100% optional.

Blame gives me certainty

at the cost of my own agency.

It makes me feel right

and someone or something else wrong.

Blame feels good and is based on a lie.

The lie prevents me from seeing where I said yes,

where I consented,

where I became part of the pattern.

Post-survival reminds me that life is

100% optional.

Thanks to theboss,

most of our internal alignment 

as it relates to survival

takes care of itself.

That leaves us with a massive set of

post-survival choices.

That’s a classy problem.

My actions and interactions​ are

100% mine to own.

In a world of too much toomuchness, 

restraint draws a line

Don’t blame others is the line between

a lie and ownership.

What post-survival choices are you avoiding

by pointing at someone else?