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How To and Why

I wanted clear instructions.

Step-by-step.

Show me the path.

Tell me how to win.

I called it preparation.

It was avoidance.

The loop of looking for HOW TO do something.

Instead of WHY to do something.

I wasn’t lost.

I was disoriented.

Mistaking the lack of directions

for a lack of direction.

I didn’t need a map.

I needed a compass.

HOW TO is fixed.

WHY adapts.

HOW TO locks in one way.

WHY unlocks the next version of next.

When I focus on why,

certainty becomes orientation.

Control becomes coherence.

I don’t follow a path.

I follow a trajectory.

I sense my way forward.

Indicated, not imposed.

Like taking the next step

without knowing the whole staircase.

Trusting the direction

without needing the destination.

The loop of needing to know HOW

is disrupted by remembering WHY.

What develops trust

without destination:

What is this effort for?

Is the outcome aligned with what matters?

Does the HOW still serve the WHY?

HOW TO helps me start.

WHY keeps me going.

When I focus on WHY,

I move with intention.

I move on purpose, on purpose.