Dan T. Rogers

It doesn’t feel like clarity.It feels like contradiction.Not the clean kind.Not the clever kind.The kind that keeps you up.The kind you can’t explain …

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I want to be close.I want to connect.I want to stay in relationship.Conceptually. Emotionally. Physically.That’s the paradox.The people I love …

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There’s a point where the story I’m holdingstarts to separate from what is here.What is really happening.It still makes sense in my head.Despite …

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Certainty is a story.A mental construct.An explanation I tell myselfto stop feeling the discomfort of not knowing.It might be true.It might not …

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When I am afraid, frustrated.When I am uncertain.I ask for clarity.Not certainty.Clarity.I’ve learned I can’t demand it.It’s not transactional.It’s …

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It’s easy to feel good.Easy to take credit.I’ve done it.Felt something powerful.Called it gratitude.Called it humility.Sometimes even believed …

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I used to think I had to be ready.Fully resourced.Fully clear.Fully confident.Now I know:I almost never am.I’m often willing.Willing to take the …

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I know I need to let go.Let go of the story.Let go of the scoreboard.Let go of the need to be certain before I act.In many moments, I do.I follow the …

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I’ve been in the room.Fully in it.I’ve been with you.Fully with you.Doing what was indicated.Feeling aligned.Acting from clarity.Not confused. Not …

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