I noticed my problems were about other people. The wrong partner. The wrong team. The wrong leader. The wrong client. If I could find the right ones, …
It’s Not About the People
| | Filed Under: R7 - Don’t blame others |
Re-orientation Is Always Available
| | Filed Under: R5 - Don’t be certain |
There’s a myth in survival systems. That change comes once a year. That reflection belongs to calendar turns. That re-orientation requires a dramatic …
Misdiagnosed
| | Filed Under: R4 - Don’t push |
My most common failure is misdiagnosis. I think I see the problem. When what I am observing is a symptom. A signal. A reaction. An echo. I name it. …
Defaulting Credit
| | Filed Under: R7 - Don’t blame others |
It’s still my fault even if it’s my default. I’m quick to blame. Quick to assign fault. It’s your fault this happened. OR It’s my fault that it …
Rest
| | Filed Under: R6 - Don’t be arrogant |
Some tension isn’t from what I’m holding. It’s from how long I’ve been holding it. Rest restores the body. Not with sleep. With release. The kind of …
Rest …
| | Filed Under: R1 - Don’t be dishonest |
Some tension isn’t from what I’m holding. It’s from how long I’ve been holding it. … …
Ritual
| | Filed Under: R4 - Don’t push |
Some emotions don’t fade. They sharpen. They loop. They replay. They rerun the same story, the same scene, the same ache. Replaying the worst parts. …
Ritual …
| | Filed Under: R7 - Don’t blame others |
Some emotions don’t fade. They sharpen. … …
Routine
| | Filed Under: R8 - Don’t overproduce |
Some thoughts don’t need to be solved. They need to be softened. Slowed. Dropped. Routine restores my mind. It provides it a break from me. Like …