In our house, we don’t talk about values.We talk about rules.Values are important.Rules are easier to remember.Especially when we’re small,or feeling …
The Rules We Run On
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Awesome is Included
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I’m being discerning.Clear-eyed vision.Constructively critical of the details.Calling it like I see it.I call it focus.It’s fixation.I couldn’t see …
Need vs. Want
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I say I need it.This solution.That outcome.The next step.I call it essential.It’s a preference.The loop of preferenceswith requirements.Trying to make …
Whose Goal?
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I’m busy.I’m moving.I’ve got momentum.It feels like progress.It looks like direction.It’s urgency.I didn’t choose it.I caught it.Like a cold.I call it …
Selective Ownership
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I take responsibility.When it’s easy.When it’s visible.When it aligns withhow I want to be seen.It's a performance.I call it ownership.It’s …
Capture the Learning (CtL)
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It’s strong and clear.The moment.The breakthrough.The feeling.I will never forget it.I move on.Fast.Put into play.I call it momentum.It’s a leak.The …
Name is a Frame
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Before I can respond,I have to perceive.Before I perceive,I have to name.That’s how it works.That’s how I work.Perception isn’t passive.It’s …
My Preference is to Judge
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I judge.I don’t want to pretend I don’t.That would be another kind of performance.The goal to be neutral, non-judgmental, peaceful.In the enlightened …
What is Indicated
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Indicated doesn’t check if I’m ready.Or if I agree.Or if I feel like it.Or if I want to.Indicated is.Indicated is a direction that arrivesbefore the …