I wanted clear instructions.Step-by-step.Show me the path.Tell me how to win.I called it preparation.It was avoidance.The loop of looking for HOW TO …
How To and Why
| | Filed Under: R1 - Don’t be dishonest |
Closer to Right (CtR)
| | Filed Under: R5 - Don’t be certain |
I wanted to get it right.Nailed down.Buttoned up.Proof I knew what I was doing.I called it determination.It was control.The loop of needing to be …
Intersection of Function and Purpose
| | Filed Under: R5 - Don’t be certain |
Function is what something does.Purpose is why it matters.They don’t always align.A tool can function without meaning.A role can be used without …
Continue Reading about Intersection of Function and Purpose →
Radical Return
| | Filed Under: R8 - Don’t overproduce |
Radical change isn’t the problem.The problem is when there’s no rhythm to return to.No thunder after the lightning.No pause after the push.Spin shows …
Without Stability, We Spin
| | Filed Under: R4 - Don’t push |
Radical change is not the problem.The problem is when there’s no rhythm to return to.When there’s no thunder after the lightning.That’s when we start …
Radical Change Requires Radical Stability
| | Filed Under: R7 - Don’t blame others |
All of life is radical change.It always has been.It always will be.The myth of every age is this is most radical time in history.That our challenges …
Continue Reading about Radical Change Requires Radical Stability →
Demonstration or Performance?
| | Filed Under: R9 - Don’t wait on perfection |
I tell myself I’m showing up.Doing the right thing.For the right reasons.I call it integrity.It’s image.It looks aligned.It feels clear.I’m …
Awareness Loops
| | Filed Under: R1 - Don’t be dishonest |
I thought I was making progress.Felt like momentum.Looked like commitment.I called it growth.It was a loop.I couldn’t see the pattern.That’s a loop. A …
The Rules We Run On
| | Filed Under: R4 - Don’t push |
In our house, we don’t talk about values.We talk about rules.Values are important.Rules are easier to remember.Especially when we’re small,or feeling …