Happiness is not a destination.It’s a byproduct of progress.Said more accuratelyHappiness is the perception of progress.When I think I’m moving …
Against or Toward
An objection is resistance.It stops me.It argues with uncertainty.It avoids answering why.When I object,I dress up my hesitation as logic.I pretend …
Evidence vs Interpretation
Evidence lives outside of me.It’s what happened.What can be seen.What can be measured.Interpretation lives inside of me.It’s what it means.Why it …
Consensus and Justice
Consensus is how we find clarity.Consensus doesn’t mean we all agree.It means we’ve all been heard.Consensus doesn’t guarantee the best answer.It …
Gift Giving and Receiving
Most of what I’ve called a giftwasn’t a gift.It was a trade.Unspoken bartering.A favor in disguise.Or a play to my own ego.I’ll give you my …
Personal Accounting
I am responsible for my actions.Not the outcomes.Outcomes are above my pay grade.I can control the effort.Not the result.I can choose the behavior.Not …
My Actions Don’t Care What I Think
I’ve learned I can’t think my way intoa better way of acting.That’s the loop of overinflating my thoughts.Details that keep me stuck.My experience has …
Learning Is Something I Haven’t Met Yet
Learning is a relationship with the unknown.Something I haven’t met yet.Something unfamiliar.A belief is different.A belief is like an old …
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The Intersection of Rules and Actions
Every game has rules.Every life too.Rules set the boundaries.What counts.What doesn’t.What’s in.What’s out.Actions fill the space inside those …
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