I am responsible for my actions. Not the outcomes. Outcomes are above my pay grade. I can control the effort. Not the result. I can choose the behavior. Not …
My Actions Don’t Care What I Think
I’ve learned I can’t think my way intoa better way of acting. That’s the loop of overinflating my thoughts. Details that keep me stuck. My experience has …
Learning Is Something I Haven’t Met Yet
Learning is a relationship with the unknown. Something I haven’t met yet. Something unfamiliar. A belief is different. A belief is like an old …
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The Intersection of Rules and Actions
Every game has rules. Every life too. Rules set the boundaries. What counts. What doesn’t. What’s in. What’s out. Actions fill the space inside those …
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Routine Ritual
My days are mostly routine. Conditioning. Default. Instinct. Mostly. Routines get me through the basics. Wake up. Brush my teeth. Check my phone. Default …
Opinions Don’t Matter Outside My Own Head
It’s easy to confusefacts and opinions. It’s easy to forgetthat opinions don’t matter outside my own head. Precious thinking encourages life without …
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Good for You, Better for Me
I offer grace easily to others. Their mistakes. Their shortcomings. Their stuckness. I call it patience. Understanding. Compassion. Not with myself. I …
Success Is a Squiggly Line
I was told success was linear. Set the goal. Make the plan. Follow the steps. Progress in a straight line. Turns out, theboss doesn’t draw in straight …
Judgments Are a Part Of
My judgments don’t come out of nowhere. They’re part of something. Part of a story I’ve told myself. About what’s right. What’s good. What’s true. I …