It’s not you. It’s me. It’s not about you. It’s about me. You share something tender. Something that aches. Hurt. Shame. Fear. Disappointment. …
It’s Not About You
| | Filed Under: R2 - Don’t take credit for grace |
Easier to Give Than It Is to Receive
| | Filed Under: R5 - Don’t be certain |
Advice is easier to give than it is to receive. That’s my first clue that I’m not trying to connect. I’m trying to solve. I want to be useful. I want …
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If You’re Not Growing, You’re Dying
| | Filed Under: R5 - Don’t be certain |
That’s what they said. I think they wanted to motivate me. It felt like they were trying to inspire me. To keep going. If you’re not growing, you’re …
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Abundance Isn’t the Answer
| | Filed Under: R5 - Don’t be certain |
Abundance is the problem. I get the sentiment. The abundance crowd means well. They want more choices, more energy, more access. More yes. Less no …
But Wait, There’s More
| | Filed Under: R5 - Don’t be certain |
That’s the line. Always delivered right before we thought it was over. But wait. There’s more. It sounds like a gift. It’s a trap. I didn’t ask for …
But That’s Not All
| | Filed Under: R5 - Don’t be certain |
You can’t have it all. As if “all” is a fixed thing. Frames the problem as volume, not clarity. The issue with “all” isn’t that it’s too big. It’s …
A Letter to a Friend
| | Filed Under: R7 - Don’t blame others |
Please don’t read this. I don’t want you to read my content. I want you to be reading it. Now. Later. Again. Like finding something you didn’t know …
Fake It Till You Make It
| | Filed Under: R6 - Don’t be arrogant |
That’s the advice. Startups love it. Personal brands swear by it. Self-help repeats it. Fake it till you make it. Please don’t. Flimsy logic for real …
It’s Just Business
| | Filed Under: R1 - Don’t be dishonest |
That’s what we saywhen we can't align decision and feeling. We decide on an outcome. That makes it the right outcome. One problem. The feelings don't feel …